Queer Cafe

Relationship Between Pets and Their LGBTQ Owners
Queer Women Own the Most Cats

Australian Firefighters and Their Pets
Pet Industry Statistics for 2021

Stuff Lesbians Love: Cats

Dolphins Have Lots of Lesbian Sex Due to Evolved Clitorises

Two Male Penguins Welcome Hatchling as New York Zoo's 1st Same-Sex Foster Parents
Companies That Are Dog-Friendly and LGBTQ-Friendly

Research: Influence of Companion Animals on Quality of Life of Gay and Bisexual Men

Advocate Poll: Gays More Likely to Own Pets

Seven out of 10 LGBTQ adults own pets, compared with 63% of heterosexual adults, according to a new poll by Harris Interactive. The same poll shows that 90% of gay pet owners say their pet is a member of their family, and two thirds have bought their pets presents for the holidays, according to a press release. The 2007 poll, in conjunction with Witeck-Combs, surveyed 2,455 US adults, of whom 158 identified as LGBTQ.

“Americans have well-deserved reputations as animal lovers and pet owners, and our latest findings underscore that LGBTQ
Americans are among the most avid,” Wesley Combs, president of Witeck-Combs Communications Inc., said in the statement. “Moreover, the holiday season reminds us of those closest to us, including our devotion to our pets. Smart marketers will recognize
that gay households truly are trendsetters in animal ownership and loving care.”

The poll shows that LGBTQ pet owners are slightly more likely than heterosexual pet owners to have cats: 63% of LGBTQ respondents owned a cat, compared with 52% of heterosexuals. However, the inverse was found with dogs: 71% of straight pet owners said they owned a dog, compared with 63% of LGBTQ pet owners.

[Source: Advocate Magazine, Witeck-Combs, 2007]

Relationship Between Pets and Their LGBTQ Owners
Queer Women Own the Most Cats

Sexy Australian Firefighters and Their Pets
Stuff Lesbians Love: Cats

Queer Animals Are Everywhere
Dog Rescue and the LGBTQ Community

LGBTQ Pet Owners

Over 70% of LGBTQ adults have pets, compared to 60% of straight adults. If you’re a pet owner yourself, you probably already know that the LGBTQ community is extremely pet-friendly: according to a recent poll, over seventy percent of LGBTQ adults are pet owners, compared with only sixty percent of straight adults. For many of these LGBTQ “pet parents”, cats and dogs rescued from animal shelters can make the best pets, providing a loving companion while supporting local animal rescue and giving pets a forever home.

The number of LGBTQ pet owners is continuing to grow, and as the problems with breeders and pet stores keep surfacing, we’re sure to see even more members of the community turn toward adoption and rescue. If you’re thinking about adding a pet to your life, skip the pet store and head straight to your local animal shelter to take home some of the best pets: they’ll reward you with a lifetime of love and companionship.

Visiting a shelter for the first time, many LGBTQ pet parents are struck by the number of homeless animals and are moved to provide a better life for one (or more!) of them. While there are many reasons pet owners might choose to adopt a cat or a dog from a shelter, some particular benefits that might drive LGBTQ owners toward adoption:

Empathy: LGBTQ pet owners understand what it’s like being treated as an “outsider”. LGBTQ individuals may have to face intolerance, cruelty, and even neglect in their lives, and ending these struggles for a rescue animal can create a lifelong bond.

Health: There have been countless studies on the connection between owning a pet and living a healthy life. Whether it’s the exercise you get from taking a dog for a long walk or the mental health boost provided by a cat curled up on your lap, it’s clear that adding a pet to your home enriches your life and theirs.

You Look Great: this may not be the first benefit you think of when rescuing a shelter pet, but it’s undeniable that someone who saves an animal suddenly becomes much more attractive. Kindness and compassion look good on anyone.

Australian Firefighters and Their Pets

Adorable Intersex Kitten, Born With No Sex Organs, Looking for a Home
Pets Provide Support to LGBTQ Seniors

Research: Influence of Companion Animals on Quality of Life of Gay and Bisexual Men

Queer Animals Are Everywhere

Relationship Between Pets and Their LGBTQ Owners

Because LGBTQ folks tend to have less social support than their heterosexual peers, perhaps having a companion animal would contribute to quality of life for sexual minorities.

There are pros and cons to owning a pet as a marginalized individual. A new study analyzes the relationship between pets and their young LGBTQ owners. The goal of this particular study is to focus on the younger LGBTQ population and to examine how human-animal interactions might impact a person's experience and well-being when faced with victimization over their sexual orientation or identity.

Since 2018, an ongoing study at the VCU School of Social Work has been analyzing the way pets impact the lives of young LGBTQ individuals. From animal-assisted therapy practices to having therapy dogs in schools to reduce anxiety, there are many mental health benefits to animal-human interactions. While the majority of current research is being focused on people who are not discriminated against or marginalized by society, this specific study could bring more clarity to how pets positively and negatively impact the lives of young LGBTQ people.

This study began in 2018 and has since focused on the role that animals specifically play in the lives of LGBTQ youth between the ages of 15-21 years old. Due to the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, many of these interviews with individuals have been conducted via video conferences. The study parameters have even expanded, allowing for questions about what it's been like to have pets during the coronavirus lockdown. Interviews were conducted with LGBTQ individuals on their experiences with pets and how that has impacted their lives.

Questions in these interviews include things relating to: Detailing their relationship with their pets. Any stressors or benefits to living with a pet. The impact of pets during coronavirus lockdown.

McDonald explains to Commonwealth Times: "We added questions about experiences with pets during the pandemic because we wanted to expand our focus to understand how pets might support gender and sexual minority youth who were forced to live at home in a family environment that might not affirm their identity."

Research: Influence of Companion Animals on Quality of Life of Gay and Bisexual Men

Does human-animal interaction impact a person’s experience and well-being? Absolutely. Over the years, many studies have proven the benefits of human-animal interactions. From animal-assisted therapy practices to having therapy dogs in schools to reduce anxiety - there are many mental health benefits to animal-human interactions.

A similar study has been done on the impact of pets in the lives of older LGBTQ individuals. A different 2018 study explored the role of pets in the lives of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender adults over the age of 50.

This particular study addressed the following questions: How does living with a pet impact perceived social support and social network size? How do LGBTQ older adults describe the meaning of pets in their lives?

In this study, over 59 percent of participants reported that they have pets and described them in affectionate terms, often referring to them as family. Many individuals classified their pets as "supportive" either by offering companionship or keeping them active and socializing. Many participants explained that their pets help them cope with some form of physical or mental health condition.

Dolphins Have Lots of Lesbian Sex Due to Evolved Clitorises

Two Male Penguins Welcome Hatchling as New York Zoo's 1st Same-Sex Foster Parents
Companies That Are Dog-Friendly and LGBTQ-Friendly

Research: Influence of Companion Animals on Quality of Life of Gay and Bisexual Men

How is this study different? The goal of this particular study is to focus on the younger LGBTQ population and to examine how human-animal interactions might impact a person's experience and well-being when faced with victimization over their sexual orientation or identity. Not only that, but this study takes a look at both the positive and negative impacts of having a pet as an LGBTQ individual.

The vast majority of current research focuses on people who are not discriminated against or marginalized by society. According to the researchers, pets may lead marginalized people to "a path of financial stress and housing instability," which are issues the LGBTQ community already struggles with. "Pets can better people's lives," Richards explains to Commonwealth Times, "but it's also been interesting to see the ways in which pets can be stressors for people experiencing homelessness and financial insecurity."

Shelby McDonald, one of the lead associate professors on the study, has dedicated the last decade of her life to researching the role of animals in the lives of children and has recently turned that focus toward LGBTQ youth.

As of September 2, the researchers have conducted 164 initial interviews. O'Ryan, one of the student researchers, explains: "We've collected a pretty diverse bunch, but the participants we interviewed have been largely white, cisgender, bisexual women. I wish we had the chance to interview more people of color and more people from diverse gender identities."

[Source: Jamie Bell, Big Think, September 2020]

Relationship Between Pets and Their LGBTQ Owners
Queer Women Own the Most Cats

Australian Firefighters and Their Pets

Queer Women Own the Most Cats

Pet Industry Statistics

Pets have taken over our lives and our hearts. Since the rise of technology, people have started to document all of the adorable antics their pets have been doing, along with the obligatory photos of their pets wearing adorable outfits. Due to the rise of social media, people have shared more than their fair share of cat and dog videos to make each other feel warm and fuzzy. While social media has connected all of our friends and families, one can help but notice more, and more of our personal friends are posting photos of their pets. That being said, have you ever thought to yourself, “how many pets are there in the US?” Or have you ever wanted to settle the famous cat and dog debate once in for all?

Our love of pets has left a paw print in our daily lives. From dominating social media, reshaping the pet food industry, creating new pet trends, and raising awareness on the need to adopt rather than buy. Pet owners will go to great lengths to ensure their pets are eating the best food and living their best life. Cats and dogs are the favorite pet for most households, but people have been more open to exotic pets to call their own throughout the years.

Top Pet Statistics According to a 2020 survey by the American Pet Products Association covering pet ownership statistics, 67 percent of households are pet owners. To put that into perspective, about 85 million families in the US own a pet. The most common/popular pets in America (by volume) are as follows:

--Fish: 142 million freshwater fish and 9.6 million saltwater fish

--Cats: 88.3 million cats

--Dogs: 74.8 million dogs

--Birds: 16 million birds

--Small Animals: 24.3 million small animals (hamsters, guinea pigs)

--Horses: 13.8 million horses

--Reptiles: 13.4 million reptiles (turtles, snakes, lizards)

Among the cuddly varieties, the two most popular companion animals are dogs and cats. Of households with pets, 71% have dogs and 55% have cats. Community Marketing Inc. has conducted an annual LGBTQ community marketing survey and found that 41% of gay men have dogs and 27% have cats.

[Source: Gay Travel, Pet Ownership Statistics]

Adorable Intersex Kitten, Born With No Sex Organs, Looking for a Home

Stuff Lesbians Love: Cats

LGBTQ People and Their Relationships with Animal Companions

Relatively early in the lesbian feminist movement, women spoke about the close relationships that they shared with animal companions who lived in the home. Cats specifically were spoken about as much loved family members and as possible sources of tension or distress should a human couple separate. Cats were also spoken about in terms of the politics of animal ‘ownership’, and what it meant for lesbian political organizing to fight against the oppression of women, whilst remaining silent on the oppression of animals.

Since these early forays into the intersections of lesbian feminist and animal rights, relatively little has been discussed publically about the role of animals in the lives of lesbians, gay men, bisexual, transgender and queer people. Certainly in academic circles, until very recently animals were only alluded to in the context of LGBTQ people’s lives. Primarily this occurred in research on intimate partner violence in lesbian women’s relationships, where early research in the field noted that in some women’s relationships animals were used as tools of coercion and control.

More recently, however, academic attention has turned to focus more closely on the intersections of human and animal lives in the context of LGBTQ communities. Researchers have explored how close kinship relationships with cats may help give meaning to the lives of older lesbian women, helping to combat feelings of loneliness and isolation.

My research team recently published on the role of animal companions in the lives of LGBTQ people who experience either intimate partner or family violence. Our research found that for LGBTQ people who experience intimate partner violence, and whose animal companions were also subjected to violence, this was associated with lower levels of social support and higher levels of psychological distress as compared to people whose animal companions were not subjected to violence.

In terms of our research on family violence, we found that relationships with animals appeared to play a protective role, potentially buffering violence perpetuated by family members. In our analysis of the qualitative data collected as part of the survey, we found that animal companions were seen as offering unconditional positive regard in the face of violence perpetrated by intimate partners or family members.

Research: Influence of Companion Animals on Quality of Life of Gay and Bisexual Men

Participants made comments such as: "My cat at my parents’ house was always a good friend through hard times and the emotional abuse I received."

Importantly, and reminiscent of early lesbian feminist research, our participants also raised concerns about the rights of animal companions to protection and safety, as noted by another of our participants: "I had a dog at the time and she stayed at my home whilst I went between my own home and the home of my abusive partner. I would not take my dog to her home as I would not have put my dog at risk of abuse. My dog was a great source of comfort to me. I did sometimes deliberately deflect my partners anger towards her own animals or her children onto myself (by deliberately goading her) in order to protect them."

Returning to the early lesbian feminist work mentioned above, it is perhaps timely, given the erosion in certain countries of the rights of LGBTQ people, and the fierce opposition that many LGBTQ people face in their daily lives, that we return to focus on the intersections of human and animals lives. Perhaps like the proverbial canary in a coalmine, the rise of research on LGBTQ people’s relationships with animal companions tells us something about the increasing need that many LGBTQ people experience to extend their kinship circles beyond the human. Different to the canary, however, hopefully animals are valued as sentient beings in their own rights, rather than simply as portents of further challenges that may lie ahead for LGBTQ people.

[Source: Damien W. Riggs, Associate Professor in Social Work, Flinders University, Australia]

Relationship Between Pets and Their LGBTQ Owners
Queer Women Own the Most Cats

Australian Firefighters and Their Pets

Adorable Intersex Kitten, Born With No Sex Organs, Looking for a Home

I’m Not a Cat Lesbian But I Fell in Love With One

Stuff Lesbians Love: Cats

Lesbians and Cats

In what ways are lesbian like cats? The fact that queer women love cats is one of my favorite stereotypes about lesbians. I currently own five (one had kittens) and it’s been the most successful pick-up line I’ve ever used. “Why don’t you come home with me and meet my five week old kittens” is like the lesbian version of a man offering to bring a straight girl back home for a drink. It works every time. And it’s easy to see why. We have so much in common with cats! They’re totally our spirit animals, and here's why:

Cats Are Nonchalant - The cat glare is scarily similar to the too-cool-for-you glances you get from girls in gay clubs. Truth is, we’re both just trying to look uninterested while totally checking out what’s going on in our peripheral vision. Nothing gets past us. Straight folks need sunglasses to hide what they’re looking at, but both cats and queer ladies have the sideways-stare down. Like a ninja.

Once They Love You, They Love You Forever - Cats totally have the urge-to-merge. Forever. It may take a while at first, but win a cat's trust and they’re yours forever.

They Have Sharp Claws, And Will Use Them If Necessary - Ours are metaphorical of course, but piss off a lesbian and she won't pussyfoot around you. Especially if you hurt her bestie, she'll go full-on bulldog on you.

They’re Androgynous - I mean who can even tell what gender a cat is anyway. And you don’t see anyone trying to be like Hey, cat, what's your gender? do you? Because you don’t fuck with a feline.

They Love Playing with Toys - A girl’s best friend is her … smartphone. I mean gay girls love gadgets, right? Stop looking at me like that. Get your mind out of the gutter. Oh, honestly.

So it’s settled. Cats are the definitely every lesbian/bi girls BFF. Wow, I made it through all of that without making a single pussy joke. Go me!

[Source: E J Rosetta, LGBTQ Columnist and Coffee Addict, lives in Hampshire, England with her spoiled cat, Hendricks]

Relationship Between Pets and Their LGBTQ Owners
Queer Women Own the Most Cats

I’m Not a Cat Lesbian But I Fell in Love With One
Pet Industry Statistics for 2021

For LGBTQ Youth, Pets Can Be a Source of Wellbeing

In a recent Virginia Commonwealth University study of 117 sexual and gender minority youth living in the US, researchers found nearly 75% of participants said they consider their pet to be a source of support that helps them cope with LGBTQ-related stressors. And nearly 90% also talked about the stress related to owning a pet.

For sexual and gender minority emerging adults, living with pets can be an important influence on identity development and related well-being by facilitating feelings of belonging, positive self-regard and purpose, by promoting social interactions, and by providing emotional support and comfort to cope with stress.

At the same time, however, pets can also be a source of psychological stress and caregiving burden for this population, which includes lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and other sexual and gender identities.

The qualitative study investigated the benefits and risks associated with living with companion animals by interviewing 117 sexual and gender minority youth living in the US.

Relationship Between Pets and Their LGBTQ Owners
Queer Women Own the Most Cats

Sexy Australian Firefighters and Their Pets
Stuff Lesbians Love: Cats

A number of themes emerged from the interviews. These included benefits such as: pets as a buffer to stress, pets as social capital, pets as a coping mechanism for mental health, and pets as identity and purpose. Risks, meanwhile, included caregiver burden, pets as barriers to relationships, and animal-related psychological stress.

“Sexual and gender minority emerging adults are at risk for experiencing additional stressors (such as victimization, rejection, discrimination) due to oppressive cis-heteronormative societal attitudes and structures,” Matijczak said. “This additional stress may lead to mental health symptoms. Pet ownership and interactions with pets provide benefits that may help people cope with stress and improve psychosocial health (fewer mental health symptoms, higher self-esteem). On the other hand, the results of our studies (and other qualitative studies) also suggest that pet ownership may contribute to stress.”

To address health disparities, she added, it is important to consider how pet ownership might provide unique benefits and risks among sexual and gender minority emerging adults.

All of the study’s participants described receiving some benefit from the relationship with their pet or pets. Nearly 75% said they consider their pet to be a source of support that helps them cope with LGBTQ-related stressors, such as discrimination, rejection and microaggressions from their peers and family members.

Nearly 90% of participants also talked about the stress related to owning a pet.

“While the benefits of pet ownership and the human-animal bond are frequently discussed in research and popular news media, it is also important to consider the stressors associated with pet ownership,” Murphy said.

“The study’s findings that pets can provide an important form of social support and comfort during times of stress, but also are a cause of stress due to financial and housing concerns and worry about the pets’ health and well-being, could provide valuable information for those working with sexual and gender minority emerging adults,” Tomlinson said.

“Clinicians, community organizations and researchers working with this population should consider pets and the role they play in emerging adults’ lives,” Tomlinson said. “For example, community supports (such as pet-friendly rental housing, low-cost veterinary care and services) may help to mitigate some of the stressors reported.”

[Source: Brian McNeill, Virginia Commonwealth University, July 2021]

Relationship Between Pets and Their LGBTQ Owners
Queer Women Own the Most Cats

Sexy Australian Firefighters and Their Pets
Stuff Lesbians Love: Cats

David Attenborough Narrates Same-Sex Mating Ritual in Epic Frozen Planet Clip
Lesbian Pugs

Can Dogs and Cats Be Gay?

If you've ever had a pet, you may have wondered if your dog or cat can be gay. You may have seen your dog mount another pup at the dog park. Or watched as your cat seemed only to groom her female litter mates while ignoring her brothers. Since house pets don't often couple up with a significant other, these questions may just be speculation. However, when you look at the animal kingdom as a whole, especially those critters who are free to roam around without the confines of a human home, the idea of dogs and cats exhibiting homosexual behavior is something that deserves closer attention.

Studying Same-Sex Behavior in Animals

Same-sex behavior has long been noted in animals of many different species. In 2014, the BBC reported on a pair of male Humboldt penguins who raise orphaned eggs together at a zoo in Kent, England. You may have even noticed your own pet cuddling up to a same-sex pal. But before we can determine whether pets can be gay, we first need to set the baseline for what is considered "gay" in the animal kingdom.

Gay human beings are defined as being sexually attracted to people of the same sex. However, human sexual orientation is famously varied and fluid, and scientists who study the sexual activity of animals urge us not to compare our behavior to our pets' for a variety of reasons.

Can Sexual Behavior Be Misinterpreted?

Can dogs be gay? Can cats be gay? Here's another reason why it's tough to find the answer to these questions: for animals, what's presumed to be a mating behavior may be misinterpreted. For example, both male and female dogs will mount other dogs. While it is possible that some pets do this because they want to engage in sexual activities, there are many other reasons they may be performing that behavior. The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA) suggests that mounting is less about sex and more about playing, releasing stress or showing dominance. Also, don't forget that dogs will often mount humans and furniture as well.

Male cats (even neutered ones) may also mount their pet parents and other household kitties to show who's boss. Neutering or spaying your pet will often help prevent mounting and other aggressive behaviors. Cats are also known for their grooming skills, and will often lick and sleep cuddled up to other cats. What may seem like sexual behavior to humans may very well be a part of social grooming.

Neutered Cats and Humping Activity

Two Male Penguins Welcome Hatchling as New York Zoo's 1st Same-Sex Foster Parents

Rainbow Fish Is Born Female and Becomes Male As It Ages
Seriously Gay Animals

Dolphins Have Functional Clitorises They Use in Lesbian Sex
Bisexual Tortoise

The Jury Is Still Out

While there's been much speculation, there's no scientific evidence of various animals, especially house pets, being gay or not.

"Whether there's any kind of same-sex sexual preference going on, that's left entirely to the imagination in the sense that the data just doesn't exist to demonstrate one way or the other," said Paul Vasey from the University of Lethbridge to the Washington Post. He continues to say that being exclusively gay is "exceptionally rare" in the animal kingdom.

So, if you're curious if your dog or cat is gay, know that there is currently no evidence to support this notion at least in terms that humans are used to defining homosexuality.

Measuring Puppy Love

Scientists often study two things when trying to determine whether animals can be gay: exclusivity and longevity. Exclusivity considers whether these animals are participating in sexual relations only with members of the same sex. A study in the Frontiers in Neuroendocrinology journal found that about 8 percent of rams appear to mate exclusively with other males, but domesticated sheep seem to be the only non-human mammal with deliberate same-sex mating behaviors. Other animals, such as Japanese macaques, bottlenose dolphins and bonobos (one of our closest primate relatives), mate and cuddle with partners of both genders, notes the BBC — exhibiting more fluid behavior that is closer to what we would call bisexuality.

Next, scientists consider longevity when studying same-sex behavior in animals. Female albatrosses, for example, often form lifelong partnerships with other females. But dogs and cats don't tend to engage in any sexual behaviors for long periods of time. Unspayed cats will go into heat several times a year and may attempt to be mounted, rubbed, or licked by another cat, regardless of sex. Because cats and dogs also do not have long-term mates like humans, longevity is often quite difficult to measure.

[Source: Erin Ollila, Hill's Pet, June 2018]

Lesbian Albatrosses of Hawaii
Adorable Intersex Kitten, Born With No Sex Organs, Looking for a Home

Is My Pet Gay?