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Tips for Parents

Having a gay child doesn't mean you failed as a parent.

Disowning your gay child means you failed as a parent.

Engage with your child. Your LGBTQ child requires and deserves the same level of care, respect, information, and support as non-LGBTQ children. Ask questions, listen, empathize, share and just be there for your child.

Get informed. Get the facts about sexual orientation and gender identity. Learn new language and the correct terminology to communicate effectively about sexual orientation and gender identity. Challenge yourself to learn and to go beyond stereotyped images of LGBTQ people.

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Get to know the community. What resources are available? Find out if there is a Gay/Straight Alliance at school, a community group for LGBTQ and questioning teens, a bookstore with a selection of books and magazines on LGBTQ issues, or a LGBTQ community center nearby.

Explore the Internet. There is a growing amount of excellent information on-line that connects people with support and materials on these important topics.

Find out where your local PFLAG group meets. Many parents say that their connections with other parents of LGBTQ kids made a world of difference in their progress toward understanding their young people. Finding another person you can trust to share your experience with is invaluable. Many people have gone through similar things and their support, lessons learned, and empathy can be very valuable.

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Don't make it about sex. Just because your child has come out as LGBTQ does not mean the young person's whole world revolves around sex or sexual orientation or gender identity. It will be a big part of who the youth is, especially during the process of figuring it all out, including what it means to be LGBTQ. Still, being LGBTQ isn't the sum of life for your child, and it is vital to encourage your child in other aspects of life, such as school, sports, hobbies, friends, and part-time jobs.

Honor your child's privacy. Do not "out" him or her to others without his or her permission. Friends and family members might have questions or want to know what's up. But it is most important to be respectful of what your child wants. Don't betray your child's trust.

Praise your LGBTQ child for coming to you to discuss this issue. Encourage him or her to continue to confide in you and keep you "in the know." If your child turns to you to share personal information, you're must be doing something right. Your child regards you as accessible and approachable. You're sending out consistent verbal and non-verbal cues that say, "Yes, I'll listen. Please talk to me!" Give yourself some credit. Your LGBTQ child chose to come out to you. Congratulations!

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Find out what kind of support services are in place at your child's school. Does the school or school district have a non-discrimination policy? Is a there an LGBTQ support group? Do you know any "out" people, or their friends and loved ones, to whom you can turn for information?

Educate yourself on local, state and national laws and polices regarding LGBTQ people. On the national level, LGBTQ people are still second-class citizens in regard to some national policies and their rights are not guaranteed by law. Consider educating yourself about this and finding out what you can do to work toward extending equal rights to LGBTQ people in the United States.

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Will Smith: Parent of Gender Fluid Son

Jaden Smith

Will and Jada Pinkett Smith are known for their outstanding acting and music careers, but they’re also recognized for having one of the most hands-off, laid-back parenting styles for their kids, Jaden and Willow. Will speaks openly about his approach to parenting and the way he and his wife Jada consciously encourage their kids' freedom of expression.

Many movie-goers may remember that Will and Jaden were the father and son team in "Pursuit of Happyness." That adorable little boy is all grown up now. He turned 21 in 2019.

Jaden’s gender-fluid style has been the subject of public discussion as he started wearing dresses when he was 17 years old and was named the new face of Louis Vuitton’s womenswear campaign. “You know, there’s a really powerful internal quality as an artist that as parents we encourage,” Smith said. “You gotta get out on the edge, you have to try things, you have to be comfortable doing things that people don’t agree with and you have to be comfortable doing things that you could fail.” Will added, “Jaden is 100 percent fearless, he will do anything. So as a parent it’s scary, it’s really terrifying, but he is completely willing to live and die by his own artistic decisions and he just doesn’t concern himself with what people think.”

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The “Fresh Prince” star opened up about what it was like for he an Jada to raise teenagers. “Because we’re both artists, we decided a long time ago that it’s sort of better to flow with what people are naturally more than what our egos need them to be,” Smith said. “So we really just try to find the things that they’re good at and support those things rather than forcing them.“ It seems the “flow” strategy (and famous lack of punishment) in the house is working out for Willow and Jaden.

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Celebrity Parents of LGBTQ Kids

Having a child who is different can be hard to handle for a parent. But when these celebrities found out their kids are members of the LGBTQ community, they not only accepted them with open arms, they have also been publicly supportive in the most inspiring way.

Alec Baldwin
Johnny Depp/Vanessa Paradis
Cher
Mia Farrow
Dwyane Wade/Gabrielle Union
Sally Field
Barbra Streisand
Marlon Wayans
Billy Ray/Tish Cyrus

Beyonce/Jay Z

Angelina Jolie/Brad Pitt
Sharon Osbourne
Gloria Estefan
Sia
Marcia Gay Harden

Will Smith/Jada Pinkett Smith
Gloria Vanderbilt
Warren Beatty/Annette Bening
Marie Osmond

Jennifer Lopez/Marc Anthony

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Celebrity Parents Who Support Their LGBTQ Kids

Cynthia Nixon
Charlize Theron
Belinda Carlisle
Isiah Thomas

Vanna White
Eugene Levy/Deborah Divine
Busy Phillips
Reese Witherspoon

Cybill Shepherd
Ally Sheedy

Earvin Johnson Jr/Cookie Johnson
Anne Rice
Dean McDermott

Sade

Khary Payton

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